What is wrong with us?
Long time since i have written anything here,
Many of us think sometimes that what is wrong with us why are we not able to do certain things or achieve something we want in our lives, we always keep overthinking about these things and always think that we as a human lack somewhere behind and we will never going to get what we want in our life. I myself thinks about all this and sometimes it depress me these thoughts are normal and you also can not stop them because human is a social animal and always stays in a race of life where he always competes with the world to reach at top. but after many nights of overthinking i came upwith another thought which is not a solution but can be a answer of this question, what is wrong with us? i think the only thing wrong is the mindset and thought of competing. we face this issue because we judge our performance not with our past but with the performance of others for example- if you are going to the gym from 1 year and you lost 15 kgs you will not compare yourself with your past who have came long way from being fat to skinny but you will compare yourself with those buffed and muscular guys who are putting in the work from last 10 years. my motive here is to explain that every individual is in different race and have different way of working for there life and you can’t compete with everyone as maybe the person you are comparing yourself with have more skills and experience then you, what you can do is learn from them and improve your skills and compare yourself today from your past and look how far you came. ‘There is nothing like competing with the world instead learn from the world and compete with your past to create your present better’